Know Thyself

I know i promised that i would reveal the moral dilemma but not just yet…The ethical dilemma still has some questions that are bothering me and who better to bring my confusion to, than to the blogren Why did she do it? Her reason was that she was missing the lustful touch which is reasonable but i suspect the fires quench out after say 3 months? and he’s been gone a year. There was nothing to show that her knee was getting weak, if you know what i mean  However,  Ms Hot and boyfie have been having some problems regarding his ‘hot pants’. Our boy was grabbed by one of Uganda’s exported students scmoozing with a wench that has been out to get him for like 3 years and boy oh boy was Ms Hot MAD!!! She was talking about throwinghim out into the cold blah blah and the crew has been reasoning with her to the point that they were talking again. Was it revenge so that she could at least take him back without the weight of sacrifice hanging round her neck? Was i the sacrificial lamb? Why did i do it? Me and Ms Hot have been friends in the same crew for like 3 years now and as friends we have hang out, talked, hugged, shot pool and done what a crew does you know…You cry, we cry together, you laugh, we laugh together, jump out a window, we’ll bury you… While we have acknowledged each other’s hotness  (Yes, by various votes that have been cast over the years, i am good looking, at least by the female species standards. Afterall, the goal is know thyself, is it not?) there has not been any sexual tension or even a slight degree of the wind blowing that side. I would have picked it up…i think… So it was quite a shocker when the proposal was made and i jumped at it like a free weight loss plan that does not require dieting nor exercise. I’m not a serial cheater, moreso, with a mate’s girl. Was it the call of the forbidden fruit? Was it curiosity coz whether you jam or allow, im sure we have wondered how our chick friends kiss or how good their stroke is likely to be or not. Moral dilemmas are solved by praying and asking forgiveness from God. Ethical dilemmas on the other hand are like niggling habits, attacking your thoughts in a board meeting, weighing you down not only with guilt, but with unanswered questions like those above. In effect, for you to find the answers, you must travel slightly longer on this slippery slope…maybe another kiss to find the answers that surely lay nested. I could leave it at where it stopped and tell her ekintu kyetukozze sikirungi.  Once you understand the moral dilemma, you will understand why i seek to understand this incident for isn’t every man’s goal to know himself and therefore prepare for occurances based not on guess work but on exactly how things will pan out if they are to depend on your reactions. Ya ya ya…ok also to sail on the magic carpet ride one more time but its contribution to my decision is not that significant.