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Turning Around Your Failing Relationship posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:56pm

Did you know that when a man stops "feeling it" for you, he'll often decide he wants to LEAVE without warning or notice?You might unfortunately already know this is true.The reality is that a man can just give up on you and your relationship without spending muchif any time figuring out what might be going on,or how to make it work. But it doesn't have to be this way.There is one single thing you can do with a manthat will keep him from ever questioning his loveand desire to be with you.Know what it is?It's that magic emotion we call ATTRACTION.I want to share something important with you here... Have you ever had a man tell you he's not happy and wants to end your relationship? And the more you tried to figure out why hewas unhappy and "fix" things... the further hepushed you away.

Is He Good "Boyfriend" Material...Or Will He Hurt You? posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:52pm

have you consistently ended up with men who didn't see or bring out thebest in you?Then take a deep breath- because you deserve a man who sees you and can love and nurture you the way you would him.But what if you've found yourself with a seriesof men who have been in some way negative, abusive, critical or controlling, or in some way seriously LACKING the kind of "relationship skills" that are necessary for a fulfillingrelationship?If so, it's possible that your own past, yourthoughts and feelings are actually ATTRACTINGthe wrong men, and that you end up becoming ATTACHED and staying in these kinds of relationships for all the wrong reasons.Your first step, if you're truly ready to putand end to this cycle, is this:Starting saying "No!" and radically reject these kinds of hurtful behaviors from any man.

Don't Let A "Weak" Approach Kill His Interest posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:48pm

Do you know how to tell if a man is interested in you... and why? Here's something interesting I've observedabout women who start to really like a guy... In trying to figure out whether a man isinterested and "into" you, you start to freak yourself out by overanalyzing everything the guy does and says.(Hint: this doesn't make you more interestingand attractive to him.) As your mind fills with thoughts about him,who he is, and what might be going on in his head... this only fills you with more questions, doubts and fears. And what happens next? After having all these thoughts... once you get together or talk to him again, he instantly picks up on the fact that something "strange" is going on with you. He can't quite put his finger on it- he just knows something feels a little off when

Inspire Your Man To Give You Affection posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:45pm

does it feel like every time you try to talk to your man about a difficult topic or the way you're feeling, he gets silent and acts annoyed, which makes you get MORE emotional? And before you know it, things spiral out of control and what could have been a five-minute conversation... turns into accusations, outbursts and excuses?You wonder if he's just not "getting" what you're saying, or if just doesn't want to be bothered to REALLY LISTEN.If you're finding that it's getting more and more challenging to have a calm and productiveconversation with your guy - because everything seems to end in bad feelings and misunderstandings - then take a step back for a minute.Ask yourself:Is it possible that the reason you can't seeeye-to-eye and connect is because you're not communicating in the way that he can RELATE TO,

He Doesn't Understand Your Feelings...Here's Why posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:43pm

If you find yourself constantlywondering how your man feels and what he's thinking...And find yourself having to "guess" instead ofgetting the answers straight from him because the "connection" isn't there... Do you feel like a man takes everything you saythe WRONG WAY?Does it seem that any time something important oremotional comes up, he either dismisses you or gives you the cold shoulder - and you don't know what to do about it?For example, let's take a situation where you goon a date with a man you met online.You have a great time, he tells you that he really LIKES you and would love to get to know youbetter.At the end of the evening he asks if you'd like toget together again in a few days.You say yes.He says, "Great! Why don't I call you in a coupleof days and set something up?"

Make Him NEED A Commitment With You posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:41pm

If you'd like to know the real reasons why so many men who never thought they'd want or need a committed relationship couldn't help themselves when it came to the right woman...What I'm going to share with you now could lead to the most important single decision you ever make in your love life. Yes, even more important than saying "I do." If you're open to it, what's in this email, and the other resources I include here for you tocheck out could literally "change your luck" forgood. Let's get started. As a man, I hear and understand a lot of what you might call the "inside scoop" on what men think. As a result, and after paying attention to thiskind of stuff for the last several years... I've come to hear a few of the same things over andover from men and women about love, dating andrelationships.

"I Love You, But I'm Not IN LOVE With You" posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:38pm

Has a man ever said to you, "I love you, but I'm just not IN LOVE with you anymore. I'm sorry but it's over"... And then told you it's over because he just doesn't "feel it" for you anymore? Or how he just isn't in the right place to go on in a relationship? "It's not you, it's me." It's like all of a sudden the most specialperson in your life changed his mind about youand decided everything you have together was worth nothing to him. Ouch. What's going on here? How and why do men change their minds soquickly? What often makes this situation worse is that a man will do most of the following:A) Show little or no signs of what he's feeling,or that things have changed for himB) Avoid trying to talk with you about it or"work it out"

Avoid These 3 Mistakes After a Break-Up posted on January 10, 2011 - 3:14pm

This may come as a shock to you.But did you know that a man will LEAVE a woman he"LOVES" if he's not feeling a certain kind ofattraction for her?That's right, a man can feel that he "cares" aboutyou and even wants more than anything to remain your FRIEND, but if he's not feeling a very specific kind of "emotional" attraction and connection with you, he's not going to feel IN LOVE with you.You know when a man says "He loves you, but he'snot IN LOVE with you"?This is about the fact that a man has stopped feeling that emotional attraction and connectionwith you.Of course, he will tell you that he thinks you're not really compatible, or that he's not ready for anything serious, or any number of "fake" excuses.When the TRUTH is that he's just not FEELING whatit is he needs to feel to know your relationshipis right for him anymore.

He's "Not Sure" What He Wants? What To Do posted on March 18, 2010 - 5:37pm

did you know that it's rarely WHATyou say to a man that makes him want to get closerto you?It's HOW you say what you're feeling and what youwant that makes all the difference.If you find that men always seem to react badlyand pull away whenever you share how you'rereally feeling...And it's gotten to the point to where you've givenup trying to share and be really open and honestand let a man in...Then you're probably making a big mistake that'sgoing to keep you from ever having the kind ofreal, deep, honest relationship you want anddeserve.But then, how do you talk and share yourfeelings in a way that instantly getshim to ENGAGE with you and CONNECT to you andwhat's going on for you, instead of pull away? There's something I want you to know. If you're casually dating a man, and

Slept Together & Now He's Avoiding You? posted on March 18, 2010 - 5:33pm

want FAST answers on what to doin your relationship?My eBook "Catch Him & Keep Him" is availablefor you to download right now, and you can bereading it in a matter of minutes...Which means getting answers quickly to yourmost pressing questions.Answers to questions such as:-What to say to him when you've been going outfor a few weeks or months, spending allyour time with each other, and sleepingtogether... and then he suddenly isn't sure if hewants a relationship, or tells you he isn't"ready". (Go through the 5-step process startingon page 163)-You've been going out for severalmonths or longer, and he tells you that he justdoesn't feel it for you anymore, or that he lovesyou but he's not "in love" with you. (Whatever youdo, do NOT make the mistake that I explain indetail on pages 103-107)